An option gives you the right, but not the obligation, to buy or sell something at a set price before a set date. The appeal to a new trader is the leverage — a small outlay controlling a large position. The part that does the damage is the deadline, because an option is the only common instrument where you can be right about direction and still lose everything.
With a share you need direction. With an option you need direction, magnitude and timing. The price must move the way you expected, far enough to cover what you paid, before expiry. Two out of three loses. This is why so many beginners report being right about a stock and losing money anyway — they were, and the contract expired before the market agreed.
An option’s value contains a component for time remaining, and that component erodes continuously, accelerating as expiry approaches. Hold overnight and it is worth slightly less purely because a day passed. When you buy an option you take a position that loses money by default and must outrun that drain.
A contract costing a few cents is priced there because the market judges it very unlikely to pay. It is not a bargain; it is a long shot correctly priced as one. The lottery-ticket appeal is exactly the problem — the payoff is enormous, the probability is small, and buying many of them converts a small account into a series of expiries.
Buying an option caps your loss at what you paid. Selling one can expose you to losses far larger than the premium received — in some configurations, theoretically unlimited. Brokers gate these behind approval levels for a reason. The distinction between buying and selling matters far more than which strike you pick.